There is one single technique that you can incorporate immediately into your erotic life that will significantly improve your satisfaction and the satisfaction of your partners. You can master this technique alone or with others. It’s completely free to try, you don’t need anything but yourself, and it’s really easy to learn. Almost everyone can benefit from it. What is the imaginary super technique you ask?
It’s called “edging” and it’s been around perhaps as long as sex itself. You’ve probably already heard about it and maybe even meant to try but never actually got around to it. In a world that functions on instant gratification it’s not necessarily an exciting proposition to hold off on getting what you want, especially when what you want is within reach, but that’s exactly the principle on which edging relies.
So what exactly is edging? Although it has a long history rooted in the ancient art of Tantra, it’s actually not that complicated. Edging is the practice of getting to the brink of orgasm only to back off before completion. You can deny yourself orgasm entirely, but my preference is to practice edging several times in succession, let the energy build and then release. My absolute favorite is to make an entire evening of it finished off with an explosive ending for both partners.
Don’t get me wrong, I love a great quickie, believe me! But there is nothing as intensely gratifying as treating our date as a slow build to climax. We don’t begin in the bedroom, far from it, first we meet at a restaurant so that we can engage every one of our senses. Conversation, cocktails, and intoxication mingle to stimulate the most exciting erogenous zone - the brain - as the outside environment fades away and it’s just us left. After that a cab ride where we make polite small talk for the benefit of the driver while we caress each other with hands like magnets.
Then to the bedroom. I would explain further but the carnal specifics of edging aren’t appropriate for public view on this blog. Besides, I can show you better than I can tell you, and it will be a whole lot more fun.